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Health     Cast: 2M 2F (Family of one very sick)

Setting: late afternoon, husband and wife returning from Dr. appt.

Trish: (wife of sick Tim) Tim, I am sorry to hear that the cancer has spread. We thought you were getting better, and now we find out more bad news.

Tim: I am as surprised as you are. I trusted Dr. Williams until now, but this news makes me wonder if he knows what is going on. And when he gave us names of some hospice groups, I just came unglued.

Trish: You and me both! That was a real slap in the face. We’ve had setbacks before, but this one really sounds ominous.

(daughter Sara returning home from work)

Sara: Hi, parental units! Work was more boring than usual, so I really need some coffee to wake up. What’s with all the long faces?

Trish: We just got another unfavorable diagnosis from Dr. Williams. It seems the cancer has metastasized.

(son Aaron returning home from ball practice)

Aaron: Ugh – I don’t know why I practice in this Texas heat. Just the games are hot enough, but these practices are brutal.

Trish: I know we invited you both for a meal here tonight, but I don’t feel up to cooking. Sara, could you go get some take out?

Sara: Sure, Mom. We all like stuff from Mia Rosa, so I will go get that.

Aaron: Gosh, Mom, you always cook up a storm. Somethin’ got you down?

Trish: Yeah, you could say that. Your dad’s cancer has spread.

Aaron: O no, Mom, that can’t be true. He is doing so well. (moves away from Mom)

Sara (coming back with food in hand) : Well I can’t bring healing, but I can bring food!

Trish: I’m feeling rather needy now, with Dad getting sicker.

Sara: That’s a real bummer. You all have been so wonderful together, and it’s no fun when one of you is sick.

Trish: The doctor even mentioned hospice, and that part is really scary.

    Questions:

Are Trish and Tim facing the issues, or dodging them?

Are the kids being helpful or harmful?

What is the triage level? (1=life at risk; 2=property damage; 3=just concern)

What do you think Jesus would say to Trish and Tim? To the kids?

 

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